Sunday, January 18, 2015

Who doesn't?


Did you ever meet someone who, when asked what they are into, replies, “I like music.”

Um, hello vague.  That’s like saying, “I enjoy food.”

Who DOESN’T like some sort of music?  Who can honestly say that they detest all music and never listen to music ever? I think the answer is no one.

Of course, there are different levels of “liking music.”  Some people play.  Some people compose.  Some people have extensive collections.  Some people attend concerts like it is their job.  Some live with ear buds permanently attached to their ears. (Ahem, my daughter).  Some fit into all the above categories. 

Students often ask me the type of music I’m into.  Sometimes they assume and sometimes they guess.  They are usually wrong. 

No, I don’t like metal.  I never did.  I don’t like any modern bands and don’t listen to the radio other than NPR.  In fact, I don’t think I have fallen in love with a new song in many, many years.

I’m boring.  I still listen to the same music I have listened to for the past twenty plus years.  I still like the same artists I did in high school.  My top eleven (I tried ten, but I couldn’t decide) favorite songs really have not changed in the past twenty-five years or so.  Sometimes the order changes, but that’s about it.  Maybe that’s lame.  I told you, I’m boring. 

So, I figured I’d share it.  I hope some of you have heard of at least one!  I have even included some of my favorite lines.


I would love to make the music video for this…  I mean a real one.

"Do you remember when
You laid beside me?
And you said you'd marry  me?
And not deny me?"



I heard this for the first time when I was taking a year off from NYU.  I remember watching it with my brother Kenny.  At one point, the entire band was in a tree.  It was gorgeous.

"Some say I'm vague
And I easily fade
Foolish parade of fantasy...
Drink in your eyes,
Drink in your sighs,
Grass on my thighs,
My aching legs."


When I hear this on Pandora, I rock out.  I don’t care who is watching!   Favorite lines,

“I’ll read to you, here, save your eyes.
You’ll need them, your boat is at sea.
Your anchor is out, you’ve been swept away.
And the greatest of teachers won’t hesitate
To leave you there by yourself chained to fate…”

That’s deep shit, yo.


I remember playing this on repeat when I was decorating my dorm room at USM.  Carrie Mae, who I didn’t know at the time, sat opposite my door and just listened.  I  knew I liked her for a reason.

Favorite line “Post nubila, Phoebus.”  It means, “After clouds, sun.”


Gorgeous, gorgeous song…

"Won't you stay? Won't you stay?
You were in my head today.
I closed my eyes to try to make you stay."

6. “Destiny” ~ Zero 7 (especially the acoustic version!)

This features Sia who is uber popular right now when she was with Zero 7.  I LOVE this song. 

"The journey's long and I feel so bad
I'm thinking back to the last day we had.
Old fades into the new
And soon I know I'll be back with you.
I'm nearly with you.

When I'm weak, I draw strength from you
And when you're lost, I know how to change your mood
And when I'm down, you breathe life over me.
Even though we're miles apart, 
We are each other's destiny."





"When I lay down my head,
At the end of my day
Nothing would please me better
Than to find that you're there
When I wake."


At one point, my mother forbid me from listening to this because she thought it was pro-suicide.  Um.  No.

"We eagerly wait to feel the labors of love...
Maybe life isn't what it seems...

Beneath a grapefruit moon, we would roll in the grass
You said these times must never pass.
I know in love is where you wanted to be,
But when I ran, you didn't follow me."


"Let me in, let me in, I'll give you candy.
Let me in, let me in, I'll give you avocados.
That's much more than most people have to offer."


Radiohead is always deep, but this is INTENSE.  It's trippy as hell.  Tell me what YOU think the lyrics mean:

"Everything, everything, everything, everything in it's right place.
Yesterday I woke up sucking a lemon.
There are two colors in my head.
What was that you tried to say?"







This has been my number one song since February 1987.  I’m not kidding.  I was a freshman in high school and the then love of my life, Harry Lupo, and I were on the phone.  He asked me what I was listening to and I said “War” by U2.  I had just gotten the RECORD (yes, RECORD) in the mail from one of those record clubs (remember those?  Do they even exist anymore?) 

He asked me if I had listened to “Drowning Man” which was the last song on the first side.  I hadn’t yet since I had just put it on. 

“Well, I want you to listen to it.  It used to be my favorite song, but now I’m giving it to you.” 

I laughed.  I wasn’t about to have someone ELSE decide what my favorite song was. 

After we hung up, I listened to it. I mean REALLY listened to it.

Take my hand

You know I'll be there

If you can 

I'll cross the sky for your love.

For I have promised

For to be with you tonight

And for the time that will come.



Take my hand

You know I'll be there

If you can 

I'll cross the sky for your love.

And I understand

These winds and tides

This change of times

Won't drag you away.



Hold on, and hold on tightly.

Hold on, and don't let go of my love.

The storms will pass, it won't be long now.

This love will last, this love will last forever.


And take my hand, you know I'll be there.

If you can I'll cross the sky for your love.

Give you what I hold dear.



Hold on, hold on tightly.

Hold on, and hold on tightly.

Rise up, rise up with wings like eagles.

You run, you run.

You run and not grow weary.



Hold on, and hold on tightly. 

Hold on, hold on tightly 

This love, lasts forever.

Now this love lasts forever.

I was hooked.  I think I listened to it fifty times in a row.  “Give you what I hold dear?”  “The storm will pass?”  These words have sustained me for almost thirty years.  I believe they will continue to do so.  

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